So here goes... During Lent, I put blogging on hold for the most part due to my personal fasting promises. Yet, somehow, despite giving up most of my blogging time to attend to other duties and tasks, my house has only been looking small increments closer to being a home. Yes, I find I have been merely slogging along with our Order in the Home (and, thus, in the Homeschool) efforts while my belly just keeps getting bigger and bigger, only slowing progress further...
Mom and Dad and their great Mom's Day gift to me, I have got a new, proactive attitude toward doing just that. I am confident I can succeed!
Over the weekend, kid-free, I was able to make visible progress on Mike and my bedroom (which was what Luke suggested I do, telling me, "Mommy, it's a mess!). Now, I seek to do the same thing to a much more daunting area of our home: our basement and one-day family, library and learning room. Likewise, I want to whip the rest of the house into shape both in terms of order and aesthetics. Big goal? Yes! But, I believe it is attainable, one proactive, PMA (positive mental attitude) step at a time!
So, today, as I set forth to continue the roll I began over the weekend, I recognize, for me, doing so includes two main maneuvers: the Thinking One and the Doing One. The "Thinking" involves assessing what works and doesn't work, making lists and diagrams for my plan of action, and, then evaluating work in progress. (Now, I know many can disregard this step, but for me and the way my brain works, it is a non-negotiable one.) The "Doing", of course, involves rolling up my sleeves and digging in to both the heavy work and tedious tasks of de-cluttering, organizing and slowly-but-steadily making cluttered house into livable, lovable home.
It is with the Thinking step in mind that I am now announcing -- and committing to -- a plan of dedicating the majority of my Training Happy Hearts posts for the remainder of the month to holding myself accountable to creating a locus of control in our home(school). And here I do not mean a control that is overpowering and stunts creativity and freedom. Rather, I picture one that is defined by order and discipline, freeing our family up to think breathe, learn, live and, indeed, simply move within a comfortable rhythm, with established routines in a pleasant space. Wish me luck! (And focus, of course!) May the remainder of May bring the locus I seek and whatever you have been longing for as well.
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Have a blessed day doing what works for you!