Titles, Acronyms and Catch PhrasesCall it the literary/linguistic learner (and teacher!) in me, but I love titles, acronyms and catch phrases that help me stay focused, get motivated and dig deeper in thought and action. This week, I realized my family’s homeschool journey is full of these: Jammies School, Our Rule of Seven, Our Core Four, SMART Goals, Faith First... The list goes on. And, I am wondering, do other homeschoolers and parents have acronyms that help them with home education, organization, spiritual life, etc. If so, please share your favorite through a comment below. I'd love to collect some more hoemschooling, child-rearing or just life-in-general titles, acronyms and catch phrases... In the meantime, a few thought on some of ours...
A Jammies School S.I. Book Study extension activity gets out of hand, but brings such laughter!
Jammies SchoolOfficial public, private and charter schools have names, or titles, if you will. Some of these are no-brainers, for example schools are often named are after the towns they are in. But, other school names are discerned only after much thought about the school's purpose and mission: Will learning be modeled after a certain philosophy? Will the school honor a specific saint, deceased member of the community or historical figure? Will the education provided reach toward a particular goal? Is there something unique about the education provided at the school or the area in which the school is built? Our homeschool falls into this second category. Early on, it occurred to me that our home pre-school was different from “normal” ones in a very silly way – the attire the kids wear to it – often pajamas! With this realization came an insight about how I wish for learning to proceed at our school as opposed to at public schools. Where many public schools seem increasingly test-not-learning driven, I want my children to learn in a relaxed, unhurried environment. Thus, the name, or title, of our school became “Jammies School.” And, of course, anyone browsing through this blog can easily see that we are literally true to our name -- much of our learning time takes place in our p.j.’s!
Nina enjoys a sensory activity inspired by our Book Study book of the week.
Have you named your household or homeschool? Please share a comment with me about what it is and why. I am inspired by little things like this..
Our Rule of SevenAs we set out on our homeschooling journey, we knew one thing that many schools “separate” (and ignore!) is something we wish to fully integrate. No “church and state” divisions at Jammies School. Loving and learning about God and His will for us is a primary focus in how we wish to train up our children. With this thought in mind, one day, while I was thinking about the “Five Finger Prayer”, a prayer I love for teaching young children to talk to God, I had numbers in mind. It was then that I ran across this post. I loved Melissa Wiley’s concept of a Rule of Six and found myself clicking links to other blogs, curious how different families let themselves be guided by their own Rules. I also immediately brought the idea up to my husband, as a way for us to clarify our own Jammies School mission and purpose. Within a week, we realized that Melissa’s literally “handy” idea for keeping her family accountable to their Rule of Six by tallying off the first five things on their list with each finger and then clasping hands together for the sixth would not work for us, however clever it was. Why? We could not narrow down our list to just six things. Getting to seven was work enough. And so, we settled on Our Rule of Seven:
- loving God
- loving Otheres
- loving Movement
- loving Beauty (nature, art, music, culture, etc.O
- loving Work
- loving Play
- loving Learning
Luke enjoys loving God and Learning, through "tranforming" Jesus with glitter as we study last Sunday's gospel, the Transfiguration.
I posted about these in practical terms, with examples, a couple weeks back and would love to hear about others' Rules – with links if you’ve got them – in the comments section below.
Our Core FourSeven? Four? What’s this? Well, as we move forward with home-preschooling, I continue to keep in mind what I like about Classical Education and things I gleaned from The Well-Trained Mind. (See this post for details.) Among these things is the fact that I need not feel compelled – as I so often do – to “do it all”. Rather, at the pre-K and K-level, concentrating learning activities around “the three R’s” -- Reading, ‘Riting and ‘Rithmetic does nicely and prevents that feeling of being overwhelmed by the responsibility of homeschooling that one can too easily slide into. Indeed, when my weeks get too busy with paid work, house stuff and the myriad of other things that vie for my attention along with the kids and their training, instead of beating myself up about what I am not doing with homeschooling, I ask myself, “Which of our Core Four could I do something special with the kids about right now?”
"Core Four?" you might asked. "You just mentioned three things - Reading, ‘Riting and ‘Rithmetic.”
Well, in Jammies School, we have a primary goal that squares off our main foci of learning: Faith Formation! By ensuring our kids participate in focused activities about the following four things on a regular basis, I know I am doing okay:
Reading and Pre-Reading
Writing and Pre-Writing
As part of our focus on Faith Formation, we've been studying the gospels from each Sunday in Lent. Nina and Luke enjoyed coloring and "tranforming" Jesus this past Sunday.
It really takes the pressure off and inspires fun!
S.M.A.R.T GoalsAs an individual, a one-time public educator and former advisor for a leadership program, I have found myself returning to the acronym S.M.A.R.T when thinking about goal-setting for myself and encouraging students and mentees to do so. As a home educator, the acronym is just as apropos. For example, during LENT, I had a simple S.M.A.R.T goal, which continues to drive our Lenten Learning with Little Ones:
Specific (well-defined and clear to all involved): We will Pray, Fast and Give throughout the season and the kids will come to associate these three things with Lent.
- Measurable (know the goals is achievable and how far away completion is; know when the goals has been achieved): We can measure our success through our Lenten bean Jars and we will know we have prayed, fasted and given during the season when Easter comes and our bean jars are “made new” with treats in place of beans.
- Action-Oriented (There are obvious “do”s): We will say formal and informal prays daily; we will discuss negative behaviors we might “fast” from (too much Internet time, biting and pinching, hitting, etc.) , replacing them with better behaviors and habits (quality time together, using our mouths to sing and pray, honoring God, using our hands kindly and with purpose – for crafts, cooking, etc.) we will list ways we can “give” and act upon them;
- Realistic (within the realm of available resources, time and knowledge): Bean jars, crafts, Lenten reading, etc. all fall within the constraints of our resources, time and knowledge.
- Time-Based (enough time to achieve the goals, without so much time we stray) Six weeks of daily efforts, usually taking seconds to less than an hour each, seems perfect!
A little sensory pre-reading anyone? Luke and Nina sure enjoyed their shaving cream "B's" and "snow" this week!
As relaxed as we wish Jammies School to be, being S.M.A.R.T with goal planning for our Core Four and other things should keep us from tripping along our path!
Faith FirstI truly believe putting “faith first” in all we do, literally and figuratively, can lead each of us to a healthier, more whole- hearted lifestyle. Thus, “Faith first,” is a motto I try to live by and to instill in my children. For a short while this past year, this mean , literally, putting “faith first”, by starting out days with morning Mass. It was a challenging experience, at times, but enriching, too. Unfortunately, early medical appointments, weather too cold for walking, pregnancy-induced sometimes-morning-sickness-most-times-exhaustion and a variety of other things broke our daily Mass habit. Still, we aim to make “faith first” an important part of Jammies School. So, the kids are encouraged to recite this simple prayer each morning shortly after waking:
Dear God, I offer you this day. Please be with me in all I think and do and say
And, we include prayer and faith readings as a part of our Morning Circle Time. For this special daily time, we have quite a collection of books we refer to – and always love hearing about others. So, if you have favorite faith-inspired books that you use with your children, please share the titles in the comments below. Thanks!
B.L.E.S.S.Each week, as I reflect on how our homeschooling journey is going and pray for guidance in training them up, I think, ‘Am I B.L.E.S.S.ing my children through our endeavors?” This week, my thoughts and prayers include:
- Bodies (health/healing, "daily bread"/physical needs being met) – Dear, Lord, thank you for helping me key into my children’s Bodies As I learn more about Sensory Integration and make simple adjustments to ensure a healthy sensory diet for Luke, I see both Luke and Nina enjoying and growing more and more.
- Labors (individual work, school and daily tasks) – Dear, Lord, I have been slacking on ensuring that my children participate in household labors habitually. Sometimes, it seems more expedient to attend to chores and tasks by myself, without the “help” of little hands. Please help me remember that taking the time to include them regularly now will save me time chiding and undoing bad habits later.
- Emotional Needs (comfort, reassurance, hope, joy, peace, etc.) – Dear Lord, thank you for every opportunity I have to laugh with my children, to comfort them when they cry, to redirect them when they are fussy. Please help me maintain the patience to deal with their more challenging emotions and to model positive ways of recognizing, dealing with and expressing all emotions. Help me stop yelling. When did I ever become such a yeller???
- Social Needs (healthy relationships with family, friends, associates) – Lord, thank you for the blessings of our town’s storyhour, playdates with cousin Gianna and time with other folks. Luke and Nina truly love these opportunities to play and learn with peers.
- Spiritual Needs (continually deepening relationship with God) Lord, the other day when Luke and Nina set up a tea for their stuffed toys, I was so amused and pleased. Then, when they stopped to pray “grace” and the “Hail Mary” with their stuffies before digging into imaginary food, I beamed. Thank you for the encouragement of knowing that my efforts to train Luke and Nina to “pray unceasingly” in both formal and informal prayer, are bearing fruit!
The kids and their cousin enjoy "reading" to each other during a quiet moment. Moments such as these are so special.
As always, I love sharing with and learning from others, so comments and suggestion below are much appreciated!