Showing posts with label Reconciliation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Reconciliation. Show all posts

Sunday, September 6, 2015

Making Time for Traditions of Our Faith


After another full, fun week of learning and play, Saturday afternoon brought my children and I back to our monthly our parish collaborative's Children's Rosary Club

We had not been to the club for several months due to conflicting plans and, this month, we got there just as it was scheduled to start, only to find that, instead of the usual Children's Rosary crowd, there was a family baptism group in the church.

As I looked down to see the little babe all in white, I wondered if our Rosary Club meeting had been canceled or moved to another location.  Before I could catch anyone's attention to ask, though, I noticed that the folks from the baptism were departing and the woman in charge of our club was heading to the altar.  Whew!  I had not mistaken anything. 

We had prioritized Children's Rosary Club this month.  It was happening.  And I ended up so happy!

Because the special baptism had set our club activities back a bit, we had not, in fact, arrived just in time to pray the rosary  Instead, we were early enough to help set up the small display that welcomes us at each club meeting.

How special it was to see Luke take precise care as he worked to align the club's Mary Statue, candle and vase just right.  Since I had a camera in my bag from our morning outing, I snapped a quick photo of him doing so.





Of course, as soon as it was time to pray, I put my camera away.  Admittedly, though, by the fifth decade, I was tempted to take it out again. 

Why?

Jack did something that will long be etched in my mind's eye: he led a whole decade of the rosary for the small group of us gathered there!
 

Jack doing so was not only cute to me, but rather special.  We've yet to have a month when Jack has fully participated in praying the entire rosary at our monthly club meetings.  So, I was surprised when he whispered to me that he'd like to lead the final decade.  (Granted, his enthusiasm to do so may have had something to do with his desire to use the microphone that our rotating leaders got to use!)  Still, it was beautiful to hear Jack lead us in prayer.

Oh, to have a recording of Jack's delighted voice as he repeated the words about the mystery and then led the Our Father, ten Hail Mary's, Glory Be and Fatima Prayer! As his mother on earth, I found it so precious.  I can only imagine what Our Mother in Heaven thinks when she hears each of us, her children, pray!  Such sweet, heartwarming music.

Moreover, I can imagine how pleased Our Mother is each time she sees us bent in concentration as we pray or create with her son in mind.

Yesterday, I had the pleasure of sharing such an experience with her.
 

After the Children's Rosary, my kids and I typically wait a half hour or so in the church in order to partake in the sacrament of Reconciliation.  Because the kids are not exactly '"sit still" types of kiddoes, this half hour, followed by the time it takes for my older two to make their confessions and for me to do so as well can be challenging.  For while my children honestly attempt to remain appropriately quiet, reverent, and respectful, they find it an honest struggle to do so.

The children's struggle, in turn, sometimes becomes my distraction.  I admit, as much as I aim to concentrate on making a full, unrushed confession, my children's noises from the pews outside the confessional can make it hard to do so.

Such was not the case though.


I knew that Nina had found a prayer card, plastic medal and relic of St. Jude at the back of the church, which she was focused on as I entered the confessional.  She had also spotted a Padre Pio prayer card and blessed oil, which delighted Jack by giving to him.  And, Luke recalled that we had our nature notebooks and pencils in our bag, leftover from our morning activities.  So, he busied himself with drawing.  All, therefore, were quiet in the church.

Not only were they quiet, they were concentrated.

As I confessed, received absolution and prayed my penance,  Nina, too, took up her pencil and notebook.  When I returned to the kids, then, I found Nina and Luke completely engaged in drawing and Jack in watching them.  In fact, they were so immersed in their work, that they did not pop up with boisterous relief as they usually do, ready to make a quick exit from the church to a place where they could use their voices and bodies loudly.  Instead, they asked for more time to sit and sketch.

Nina observed the statue of Mary and the baby Jesus that we had put our Children's Rosary rose bouquet underneath.  


 

Luke inspected the altar, imagined all of the implements used during the Mass and created an Altar Gang-like sketch.


 

Both caused me, and I would think, Our Lady, to smile.
I am so glad we made time to pray the rosary with other parents and children from our parish and to partake in the sacrament of Reconciliation yesterday.  The graces of our choice became immediately apparent!

Undoubtedly, each person around the world that participates in the
Children's Rosary shares in special blessings.  If you'd like to learn more about starting a Children's Rosary Group at your parish, simply contact Blythe Kaufman.



How might you choose to make time for faith traditions today and how might it enrich your day in simply ways or profound ones?

Monday, December 29, 2014

3 Favorite Resources for First Reconciliation (and One Noteworthy Celebration!)


Guess who received her First Reconciliation at the tail end of Advent?
 

That's right!  Our Nina.

Among the resources we used to prepare Nina for First Reconciliation were the following:

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A Family Favorite Altar Gang CDWe've Been Wronged

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Image Credit: Holy Heroes

The children received Lumen Entertainment's  three Altar Gang CD's for Easter last year, which they quickly became enamored by.  As Nina prepared for First Reconciliation, We've Been Wronged became regular mini-van listening.  This silly, yet meaningful, audio drama features AJ the Aspergillum, Skiff the Incense Boat and the rest of the Altar Gang in a story - laced with song - that helps children focus on the value of forgiveness and the importance of God's Mercy.


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The Super Child-Friendly Living the 10 Commandments for Children

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Nina and I reviewed parish-provided materials, the classic Lovasik's The Ten Commandments book and more as we prepared for her First Reconciliation.  However, the book that we found most useful in helping her with an Examination of Conscience was Living the 10 Commandments for ChildrenIn fact, Nina chose to bring this sweet, spot-on, child-friendly book with her to the Reconciliation Service, where she ended up sharing it with the teary, nervous little girl who stood behind her in the Reconciliation line.  

Brief, yet thorough explanations, with real-world examples and darling illustrations make Living the 10 Commandments for Children a true favorite for catechesis here.  Truth be told, I even use the book alongside my children sometimes when preparing for Confession.

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 A Free Youtube Videos: Sacrament of Reconciliation
 
and
 

We found the frist video last year when Luke was preparing for First Reconciliation and revisited it in Nina's First Holy Communion Prep classes at our parish as well as at home this year.   It's great for children and adults!

I like the second one, too!

Celebrating Nina's First Reconciliation


After all of the First Holy Communion Prep children recevied their sacrament, Luke asked if he could receive, too.  Then, he eagerly gave a family gift to Nina, who was thrilled to a box of GFCF cookies and the book Clare's Costly Cookie from us in addition to the meaningful medal our parish gifted her.



In fact, Nina got a little silly as she stepped outside the church, literally dancing and jumping with excitement over having received both sacrament and gifts.



Then, in true Nina fashion, she promptly opened the box of treats when we got into the car and began sharing cookies with her brothers, Daddy and me.  The cookies lasted but two days in Nina's hands, but the grace of receiving sacraments will last a lifetime, we know!  And, the impact of Clare's Costly Cookie is lasting, too.  The kids and I have been reading chapters of it daily and are finding it absolutely fabulous!


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Clare's Costly Cookie, available at Amazon or Holy Heroes is tops for teaching children how to pray to Jesus.  In it, nine year old Clare chats with Jesus, revealing spirit and spunk, as she grows in faith.  My children always ask me to read at least two chapters in a sitting, and I gladly agree, as I find the book a "living book" of catechism.  It includes themes such as:

  • resisting temptation
  • humility
  • redemptive suffering
  • the armor of God
  • the Real Presence of Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament 
  • the role of the Blessed Virgin Mary

...and more.  It also includes brief stories about saints within Clare's prayer monologues.  Truly, Clare's Costly Cookie is a perfect book for First Holy Communion prep and beyond!


Through reading Clare's Costly Cookie and watching  Inside the Sacraments: The Holy Eucharist DVD (which Nina received for Christmas and which all the kids and I thoroughly enjoyed earlier tonight), I have no doubt that Nina is well on her way to being prepared for her next sacrament.

And, yes, if it is not already obvious: we just love Holy Heroes for First Reconciliation and First Holy Communion Preparation materials, as well as for faith-based fun and learning all year long!  Holy Heroes free Mass prep videos and printables, as well as the CD's, books and videos for sale, sometimes as Deals of the Day, enrich our family's faith-based learning and fun so much! 


I am grateful to the Holy Heroes Adventure Guides for helping my kids prepare for their sacraments and more deeply understand the richness of the Catholic faith!

What are some of your go-to resources for First Reconciliation and First Holy Communion Preparation?

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