Sunday, November 27, 2016

10 Ways to Begin Advent

Happy Advent!


It’s that time of year again: time to celebrate the beginning of a new liturgical year and the end of the current calendar year.  It's time to wait with joyful anticipation for the coming of Christ - past, present and future.  It's time to prepare to celebrate the remembrance of Jesus coming to earth as a baby; time to continue readying ourselves to receive Jesus in the Eucharist each week at Mass as well as through the grace He extends to us; and it's also time to ready our souls for a future meeting with Christ on a day none of us can know.  Indeed, it's time to embrace the season of Advent, and, then, the joys of Christmastide.


As such, for weeks now, I have been taking pockets of time here and there to piece together my family's life and learning plans for this year' Advent through Christmas seasons. I had hoped to have our plans ready in sharable form today, but - alas - do not.  Thus, rather than sharing our full plans right now, I am offering snippets of how we kicked off Advent instead, including highlights of what we have planned for the coming week.  That way, if you, like me, are not 100% prepared for this season of joyful anticipation, you may at least enjoy a bit of last-minute inspiration to embrace Advent however life is going right now.

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A Works of Mercy Christmas Countdown Chain


The children awoke to find our Advent Chain hanging up. 

They'd brainstormed ideas for it during our Christ the King day observances and busily written each of their ideas down on paper strips throughout the past week.  So, they were delighted to see the chain up and ready to go and, first thing this morning, my oldest took his first turn at pulling down a link, whereupon we all immediately paused our day to pray for unborn babies as that was the suggestion written on the link. 

Later in the day, since we'd completed the suggestion on the opened link, my oldest hung the link on our Jesse tree.  We took to doing that with our completed links last year and liked seeing the tree filling up, so we're doing the same thing this year.

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A New Liturgical Year Celebration



Before heading off to Mass, where one child sang in the choir and another served on the altar, we celebrated the new liturgical year much the same as we have in the past by donning paper hats during a celebratory breakfast, chatting about what Advent and the liturgical year are, and, literally, ringing in a new year.



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Works of Mercy Wise Men Fun

Two years ago, I thought about mixing picture books with Wise Men with service to create a new family tradition.  Then,last year, I actually did it.  It was so much fun, we've carried our "Works of Mercy Wise Men" on.

This morning, children discovered our Tales of Glory Nativity Playset Wise Men reading If He Had Not Come near a handwritten sign that said, "Reason for the Season".  So, we read the book and chatted about what the world would be like if Jesus had not come.  The children, then, decided to pray with the words the boy in the book prayed with and, also, to pray for the living and the dead by praying an additional prayer for babies. 

As the week continues, our Wise Men will likely find themselves reading:


 
  • Merry Christmas, Strega Nona near a foam question mark, whereupon the children and I might discuss how we prepare for Christmas and how we might help others prepare or, perhaps, how we might plan a big surprise in service to another.



  • The Catholic Children’s Treasure Box, Book 19 story about Rosemary and a cut out of a heart, whereupon, we will likely chat about how we can keep Jesus in our hearts – and share Him with others through some Work of Mercy that day.




  • Marta and the Manger Straw, a small wooden "cradle", and “straw”, thus beginning our Preparing the Manger for Jesus custom for the year, where the children may lay straw in Jesus' cradle each time they offer a sacrifice or kindness.

  • The Littlest Angel and a bag, whereupon we might consider what precious little items we have that we could give away to others that may need or like them.



  • The Friendly Beasts and bird seed, whereupon we may discuss how each creature in the book gives Christ what they can and how we can easily and simply give God’s creatures a gift.
 

  • The Small One and donkey figurine, whereupon we may chat about who or what needs a good home and how we can help with that.

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Pageant Preparation
  
The children will be in a pageant this year on the eve of Epiphany, so I went to a planning meeting where we discussed details of how we will stage The First Christmas - A Children's Christmas Pageant Script (a free script.)  The children and I  begin practicing their parts for the pageant by reading the script with me regularly during our lessons.


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Jesse Tree


As a family, we went on a short nature walk to find a fallen branch to act as our Jesse Tree this year.  Then, we came home and set up the tree. 

Later in the evening, we began reading the Jesse Tree, read some Scripture from the Old and New Testaments, and hung up one of our Jesse Tree ornaments.  (The ornaments we received in our swap last year do not correspond perfectly with the book, but we go with it, because we enjoy both the book and our ornament collection!)


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Mary and Joseph's Journey and Our Nativity Sets

Over the years, we have collected a number of nativity sets, so, today, my daughter helped me to carefully unpack them and place them about the house. As always, we only set out full sets of three play ones we have.

Each of our other sets is currently set out without the Baby Jesus figurines (because those get put out by the children on Christmas) and the three Wise Men (because those figurines get placed on Epiphany.)  Our living room nativity set is also up without its Mary, Joseph, and donkey figurines, because those figurines take a turn in a different room in our house each week until Advent as we recall Mary and Joseph's journey to Bethlehem.  (Typically, we have a simple dinner and movie night once a week and, then, go move the Mary and Joseph figurines.)

This year, since I am not sure we've blessed all of our nativity sets before, we will do so later in the week with the Blessing of a Creche f
rom Catholic Household Blessings & Prayers.
 
God of every nation and people, from the very beginning of creation you have made manifest your love: when our need for a Savior was great you sent your Son to be born of the Virgin Mary. To our lives he brings joy and peace, justice, mercy, and love. Lord, bless all who look upon this manger; may it remind us of the humble birth of Jesus, and raise our thoughts to him, who is God-with-us and Savior of all, and who lives and reigns forever and ever. Amen.

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The Feast Days of Our Lady of the Miraculous Medal and of Saint Catherine Laboure


Because the feast day of Our Lady of the Miraculous Medal fell on the first day of Advent this year, we decided to delay most observances of it and to simply set an Our Lady of the Miraculous Medal peg doll and prayer card we received a Marian peg doll swap earlier this year. 



Tomorrow, the 28th, which is Saint Catherine Laboure's feast day, we will learn, pray, and study through:


Source: Holy Heroes
  • listening to an Altar Gang CD that mentions Saint Catherine Laboure and the Miraculous Medal.

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Candelight Readings by the Advent Wreath

Last week, I asked each of my children separately what book they absolutely did not want to miss reading this Advent, and they all had the same answer, "The next one like Jotham's Journey!"

 
Thus, my children were thrilled to see Ishtar's Odyssey come out and delighted in placing smooth, new candles in our old Advent wreath and then continuing our Advent tradition of nightly reading by candlelight.

Since we neglected to re-bless our Advent wreath today, we will do so later this week, using prayers in one of several booklets we have collected over the years or using the blessing found in a free printable at Loyola Press.  (The printable also contains a short history and prayers for each week during Advent.)

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Pause!


You might think that with all these Advent kickoff traditions, our day here was busy, busy, busy, but, honestly, although full, it was not too full.  In fact, I took heed of the message before Advent I received a couple of weeks ago and prioritized some pause during our day. 

The children played freely by themselves and with one another.  Daddy and the kids tossed a football about and watched some football online.  Daddy played guitar.  Little hands reached into an Advent book basket to begin perusing seasonal reads.  I took time to pray, think, do some organizing... 



Of course, read-together times happened, too, like with The First Noel.


Along with these simple pleasures, there were a few little bumps along the way (with a mislaid book, moments of misbehavior, and more "typical stuff"), but on the whole, the day was quite a beautiful start to our Advent.  I pray your Advent is already unfolding well, too!

What traditions, customs, and stories help you prepare your home and hearts for Jesus to come?

Sunday, November 20, 2016

Celebrating Christ the King Day with Stories, Symbolic Eats, and Starting Our Advent Chain



We have a sickie here today, so were unable to enjoy the Solemnity of Christ the King the way we had planned.  Still, the day held its own beauty and blessings, which I share with you here in case you want to borrow any ideas to use throughout the week or in future years.




A Chat about a Servant King


This morning, we chatted about what kind of king Christ is and how He is different than other kings.  Some kings wear jeweled crowns and carry a scepter. Jesus wore a crown of thorns and used a cloth to clean another person's feet.  He was a servant-king on earth and now reigns forever from heaven.  How might we serve as He did today?  May we one day sit near Him in heaven?  How and why?

Picture Books that Relate to Christ the King

 
We also enjoyed read-together times during which we connected picture books to the Sunday Mass readings and to the idea of Christ as King. The majority of the stories we read were suggested on Storypath, however, some were ones we own or had previously read for our geography club studies. 

As you can see, we read and chatted about A LOT of books today (with the starred titles being our favorites)  They included:



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What did the king appreciate about the shepherd? Did the shepherd ever falter?  Do we have a choice to move towards good - toward God - or towards bad with everything we say and do?  Are there any thoughts or lessons you have to take away from this story about yourself or about your relationship to Christ our King?



Is there another story we have read recently in which someone was loved even when they did not do right?  Did the chick in it sometimes make its Mommy sad or mad?  Did the mommy sometimes make the chick sad or mad?  But how did they always feel?  Is there someone who always loves us like that?

Can you think of a book we've read recently where love was shown to someone outside of a family, where words were important and someone had a chance to move toward God or away?  A story that was about forgiveness? What happened in the story? Did the boy feel good when he got the other boy back? How did he feel once he forgave the other boy? Can you think what Jesus said about forgiveness? Have you ever gained freedom through forgiveness?

What is another story we've read recently where words hurt someone?  Why did the creatures who spoke mean words speak them?  What stopped the cycle of mean words?  Isn't reconciliation a fabulous thing?  Aren't you happy Jesus came so that we might be reconciled?  




What is there in the life of the herd boy that might prepare him to make a strong leader? Can you think of Biblical shepherd kings? How about kings that lead by service and protection?




Was this story silly and fun?  What happened in it? What would it be like to be invited to be royalty?  HOW was the girl's kingdom - temporary or forever? Where is the only "forever kingdom" and who reigns there? 


How did the leader in this book change? What makes a good leader? What connection to Jesus can you make?


Cass gathered orphaned lambs to build his own her. Who else asks his flock to be fruitful and multiple, increasing His kingdom?



What happened at the beginning of this story? And the end? Who was protecting and comforting who? When we feel scared or anxious, can we feel the presence of God growing bigger in our lives much like the teddy bear seemed to grow bigger?  Isn't it fabulous how He, as our king, protects and comforts us?

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Was Troto mocked for being small?  Did he win anyway? Who else was mocked, but was, then, victorious? Are there times when our limited understanding of ourselves or a situation did not allow us to see the power or glory that, in the end, could unfold?

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Arthur was small and young? Was he expected to become king? Can you think of a king in the Old Testament who was also small, young and unexpected? How about in the New Testament?



Who created our world and is king over it? (Are there any differences between this retelling of creation and the Bible? What are they?)

 
Three Blessings of Sickbed Sundays

 
This morning, we also lived our typical three blessings of sickbed Sundays. Some of us stayed home to watch Mass online while others of us went to Mass locally.  We all served one another in one way or another.

A Symbolic Meal


This evening, the healthy ones among us enjoyed a simple symbolic dinner that reminded us about Christ's kingship.






Nina set our meal up as a picnic.  We used a Sacred Heart candle to remind us that Jesus is a king with heart and king of our hearts.  Nina also made pineapple crowns.





Among the foods and drink we served were ground meat and salad to remind us of our earth, where Jesus came to be a servant king and "royal punch" (pomegranate juice) to remind us of the royal color of kings as well as the blood Jesus shed for us.  Brussel sprouts also reminded us of earth due to their spherical shape.





Berries added nutrition to our meal as "crown jewels.  They also remind us of the colors in the Divine Mercy image.  Christ our King loves us with such kindness and mercy.



A gluten free tortilla and casein-free "cheese" crown was meant to represent the earth and Christ's kingship over all. 


However, the children thought it would be more fun to play with our food, making kingly faces, before we actually ate. 

A Start to Our Advent Chain

After dinner, the children dictated ideas to me for Advent Chain. 

Their ideas this year were:



  • Give someone a hug. 
  • Give a sad person a hug. 
  • Donate clothes to the St. Vincent de Paul bin. 
  • Pray for Nana and Papa.
  • Pray for S.G.
  • Pray for everyone with cancer. 
  • Pray for everyone who is sick. 
  • Pray for M to be converted. 
  • Pray for the reversion of all sinners. 
  • Pray for the reversion of family. 
  • Pray for all babies. 
  • Pray for abortion to be stopped. 
  • Pray for C. 
  • Pray for I. 
  • Pray for J to be converted. 
  • Make a meal for someone. 
  • Make a meal for Mommy. 
  • Give someone a secret gift. 
  • Write a secret letter. 
  • Fast from eating treat, and every time you want to eat one pray. 
  • Give someone cookies. 
  • Make someone else’ bed. 
  • Smile at a random stranger. 
  • Ask Mommy if I can do anything to help. 
  • Forgive someone in your heart. 
  • Pray extra for Eddie’s soul, Adrienne’s soul, and souls of other deceased friends and family. 
  • Put some more money in the baby bottle. 
  • Give away some stuff. 
  • Give a gift to someone to celebrate Jesus’ birth.

The children will be using their self-generated ideas as copywork throughout the coming week as they make our annual countdown to Christmas chain we'll use throughout Advent.



I'd love to hear about your favorite ways of observing Christ the King and preparing for Advent.  Do share in a comment here or on our Training Happy Hearts Facebook page.  Thanks!

Wednesday, November 16, 2016

My Children Have Been Loving the Game Commissioned {A Review}

 
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A new cooperative board game has come into our home recently -   Commissioned by Chara Games  - and I could not be happier with it.  It's been such a joy to witness my children teach themselves how to play it and, then, have them share their newfound "expertise" with me.

What is Chara Games?


Chara Games was founded by Patrick and Katherine Lysaght, a husband and wife team, in 2014 with the aim of creating tabletop games which families and friends can enjoy while exploring historical and modern Christianity.  The word chara is Biblical Greek for "unspeakable joy", and Chara Games seeks to make joy its mission by "building games that create joy by developing relationships with God and people."

What Is Commissioned and How Did We Expereince It?


Commissioned is a strategic board game inspired by history from the first 150 years after Christ.  Although overtly Christian in visual design, the game focuses more on history and strategy than on Christian doctrine, so it can appeal to gamers of all creeds and beliefs.  It does include some Scripture within the game pieces, however, as well as a printed Appendix with further information about the Christian history the game is inspired by.  Thus, those seeking to learn or teach more about faith in context to the game can easily do so.

When we received our review copy of
Commissioned, my oldest child (10) was eager to break it open and to start playing  I did not have time to do so with him right away and was a bit wary about letting him have at it on his own, because the game has so many pieces, which I did not want getting lost.

After some begging on my son's part, however, we agreed to open and inventory the game together, and, then, to let my son see if he could figure out how to play it so he could each me when I was ready to sit down with him. 

Honestly, I thought my son might be overwhelmed by the sheer number of pieces to the game, but he wasn't.  In fact, as he laid his hands each of the following items, his excitement to play only grew:


  • 1 double sided game board (which my son showed off at a recent Geography club when we were talking about types and purposes of maps.)
  • 5 double sided scenario cards


  • 6 unique player boards (which are beautifully illustrated)
  • 96 faith cards

  • 27 trial cards
  • 4 wood missionary meeples
  • 75 wood church member cubes
  • 1 wood elder's staff (which my children love to pass around)
  • 6 wood player pawns
  • 30 double sided stop tokens
 

  • 5 double sided extinguish tokens
  • 1 converted city leader's token
  • 1 Roman Legion token
  • 1 8-sided die
  • 1 rule book
  • 1 Theme Appendix

Beautifully
designed for ages 14 and up, Commissioned is not an open-and-play-in-minutes sort of game.  Honestly, it is a bit complicated to get the hang of at first.  However, not too complicated.  In fact, my 10-year-old had no trouble figuring out how to play with the help of the instruction booklet and a few videos online. 



Once my oldest figured out how to play Commissioned, he got his younger siblings hooked on playing the game with him.   They quite enjoyed the game and did not mind that it lasted well over the expected hour of play the first time they played it.

Since then, the children have coached me in how to play
Commissioned and have played it on their own, too.  They have played with as little as two players, but not yet played with a full compliment of six players.

To play, basically, each player takes on a role as an apostle, using a skill from the Faith Deck in order to help grow the church. Players aim to collect the New testament books and overcome historic trials while strengthening their Faith Decks. 

During the game, each p
layer takes a turn as the Elder, or the one who makes decisions for the group, and, together, players work to achieve a scenario's conditions for victory before losing churches or running out of time. (There are five different scenarios that cover different periods of early church history, each with unique challenges in strategy.) On any given turn, persecution might square off with faith.  Disasters could strike  Miracles might occur.  As all this happens, players need not know a thing about Christianity nor history to play, yet still get a taste of early Christian history as the game unfolds. 

The design and premise of
Commissioned makes the game work equally well for gamers who simply like well-designed, engaging games and Christians looking to enjoy games without worrying about content.  The fact that the game takes only about an hour to complete makes it a strong choice for introducing friends and family to gaming.
 

What Did We Think of Commissioned?


My nine-year-old daughter said:


It's fun.  It's a tiny bit complicated.  I learned it when my brother read the directions and, then, had us watch two videos about how to play it.
  


The first time we played, it was fun, but we weren't very good at it.  Then, the second time we played, my brother wanted to play the competitive way, so he played as a Roman and Mommy and me were the apostles.  We lost utterly!  Since then, we've played all on one team again.  I prefer that way.


I like that the game is of our faith.  It's never the same twice and,if you have some extra time, it makes the time go faster, because it's fun.  The game takes about a hour.

The game is meant for kids older than I am, but I think it might interest other kids my age.  (Maybe. We are strange kids.)  I think anyone who doesn't mind a game that takes up a lot of time, likes to role play a little, and  likes faith would like this game.




My ten-year-old said:
It's really good.  I like playing Peter, because he gives you good cards that are worth lots of faith.

I think it is a game that is good for people who have lots and lots of time and like role playing games.  You don't actually role play much, but you get to have a chance to be the elder and that means you have real power over what happens in the game.  You also imagine you are trying to spread the faith during the time when may people were persecuting the faithful.  It gives you an idea of how hard it was.




I like this game because its Christian and historical.  The prayer cards and board look cool.  The pictures of the apostles are nicely designed.  I like the pieces as well, especially the missionaries.  They look like tiny grey people.



I would recommend this game to anyone.  It's an awesome great game.  It is designed for ages 14+, but I think it is good for 8+.  My little brother is only 6.  He plays it, but it's hard for him.  He needs my help.


My six-year-old said:

It is fun.  I like it.  I like the pictures of the disciples with the purple and green and stuff.  I also like how there are two maps on the board, and also, I like how you can play in different ways, like one person can be Rome and one can be the disciples or you can all be the disciples.  I like to play it as all the disciples.  I also like the trial card of Mt. Vesuvius - the explosion.  That can destroy the shields.




I like how each turn you have to have a bad thing - a trial - happen.  There are good things, too.  There are miracles.  It shows me how the Romans did all the stuff - like the trial cards remind me of the Romans - but we can still win. 

We don't get all the candles snuffed.  We don't want to get Mt. Vesuvius.  We want to get all the Gospels of the Bible.

Everybody but babies would the game.

And since the children have left me little to explain, I will simply say that I love the way this game brings my children (and me, sometimes) together to have fun using our strategy skills and cooperation as we enjoy a game with ties to faith history.


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